In the midst of upheaval

There’s so much going on I can barely keep up.  Most of it is just stuff in my head.  Transitions and changes are getting the best of me.  This is upheaval time. I fired my nanny two weeks ago.  Most of you know she was number 16, and I think we’ve had her the longest. …

Feeling the love and the heat!

Shanghai has been breaking records in heat this summer.  I take a picture of the temperature everyday because I can’t believe it.  Two days ago, the girls and I looked on the internet for hotter places…Cairo, Phoenix, Thailand, but no, we win, every time.  And it’s no cooler at night. It was a bit of…

The Best Laid Plans

I have so many things looming over my head, and all I want is a vacation!  I want to go to the hot springs but I keep putting it off until I can get all of this paperwork squared away.  It seems very over-whelming, I have to say.  I almost wonder if it’s unattainable.  The…

48 years

Forty-eight years exploring this Earth and some of the many things it has to offer.  My favorite gifts are people.  I’ve had some great celebrations with some great people these past few days.  My friend Connie is leaving China.  We went out to Taco Bell, had a lovely lunch, and got presents!  Connie gave me…

The pains of transitions

Transitions are never easy.  Paperwork and red tape in China is never-ending.  Life as an ex-pat is never dull.  I was taught to not use “never” and “always,” but these are common truths. The list of things I have to do and the hoops I have to jump through seems endless.  The thing is, it…

On the fence

What a week of ups and downs, yes’s and no’s, and just back and forth on the fence.  A week ago, I went to sign the contract.  And I did sign the contract.  I took the girls with me so they could see the school. But as I was talking to HR, they gave me…

As the World Turns…

Volume three of the interview saga… I had the meeting with the owner, and he was uncharacteristically (for Chinese) direct and, I felt, discriminatory.  “How are you going to have energy after work to deal with your children?”  He asked.  I asked him if he had no teachers who were parents.  He said yes, but…

the good, the bad, and the crushing…

So much to say, where to start?  I left off the last blog about the interview, so I will continue there.  I had a meeting on Saturday with another head of the middle school, Lauren.  She met me, and we ended up talking for 2 straight hours! First she told me some crazy ego-boosting things. …

Interview adventures

I have never tried to blog on my iPad, but my computer is dead. In fact, not only is my computer dead, but my internet has not been working since last night, but I’m just full of things to say! I went on an interview yesterday for the same school, but this time for the…

Reoccurring themes

This was quite an interesting weekend with a lot of very Shanghai nuances.  I had a three-day weekend:  Monday, Tuesday, and Wednesday, because last week’s holiday was on my day off.  It was also payday.  Last month, because of my expensive surgery, we couldn’t do anything, or go anywhere.  It really sucked for many weeks,…

Spring and random observations.

Easter passed pretty quietly, especially since I had to work.  Everything’s been very low-key the past few weeks since I’m very low on funds.  The weather’s been beautiful.  We take walks, but that’s about it for entertainment right now. Between the Easter Bunny and the Tooth Fairy, it’s been a bit of a magical time. …

The very good, the bad, and the annoying.

First, the good news.  Ladies and gentlemen, it’s not cancer!  Yea!  Jump up and down, happy dance.! I found out today that it’s just a swollen thyroid. The bad news is, that it cost me A LOT of money.  We are trying to negotiate.  The room cost $300, and I was only in it for…